When the family breaks up there’s not much to do but be really sad, like profoundly sad. here you have spent your entire life on a quest for a perfect family, finding that special someone with whom you can grow old, whilst raising a legacy of your kin to carry on your good name and your family pride. Then this meddling thing called life gets in the way and you finally realize the only solution to go forward is to end it all, shatter the glass, the dream, your whole world. When this happens, there are a lot of things that will need to change. Most of them will be bad. So here are some of the things you will need to take into consideration as you downsize your life after the break up of your family.
Get a Smaller Car
So you started to actually come around to the idea of having a minivan. You actually kind of liked having a bigger car, while it was still comfortable to drive. Sorry, but now that minivan has to go. You can’t be a single guy driving around the hood in a minivan. So trade that mini van in to a place like KIA Santa Clarita and get yourself a smaller and more practical car. Kia’s are great for that kind of thing because they are zippy and peppy, they do not cost a lot of money at all. They’re kind of cool in a way, and they have a good warranty. You can start shopping for a Kia you could stomach at http://www.kiaofvalencia.com/. By minivan, hello Kia sedan.
Lose the Pay TV
In this day and age it’s crazy to still pay for cable, and now that you’ll be alone more of the time, you can watch anything you want to hear on the internet (you obviously can’t get rid of that). Make sure you can still hook your TV up to the internet, and then lose the $100/month or more that you’ve been wasting on cable. It’s going to be a nice step into the future for you and you will be happy that you made the switch and it won’t really be that big of a deal. You’ll be a happier you, no longer married to the TV (or your wife).
Get Out of the House
You also need to change your social habits as you start this new chapter. You don’t want to just spend all of your time at home wasting time watching sports or playing online cribbage. This is one of the things that led to your divorce in the first place. So instead of just sitting around being all self deprecating, you better get out and meet people, engage in activities that you can see yourself thriving in. Join politics or something like that. You’ll be happy to be out of the house and to be moving on.
